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The real reason women have trouble orgasming during casual sex

roguebelle:

The real reason? Most men, especially young men, are bad at sex.

There. I said it.

Y’know how I know? Because I’m really good at it, I’m thoroughly in touch with my body and what gives me pleasure, and I orgasm like I’m getting paid for it, and I’ve still been with too many guys who just clearly did not have a clue what they were doing — many of whom would then get huffy and insecure if I tried to guide them to better performance, like my needs were throwing them off their game.

Fuck that noise.

So let’s stop putting this all on women, hm? How about an article examining why so many men are bad at sex? And even if you want to say that, oh, women should speak up more (which doesn’t always work and which ignores the cultural conditioning that encourages us not to), why on earth should that burden all be on us? Women are inundated, constantly, with messages on how to please men. Pick up any damn mainstream women’s magazine, and I guaran-damn-tee you you will see headlines like: “How to blow his mind”, “How to make sure you’re the one he’ll never forget”, “How to be amazing in bed”, “69 amazing sex tips”. The message does not go both ways.

If a man wants to be good at sex, why doesn’t he, y’know, ask how to become so? Or, if it’s too awkward to bring up with casual partners, maybe read something? Research, dammit! Learn where the clit is and what to do with it! Learn how to give good head and not just because you want it in return! Master a position other than missionary!

But nooooooo, they all just assume they must be good at sex by sheer virtue of Magical Dick Powers. And I, personally, am no longer rewarding such behavior.

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zuge:

how do i block that side of tumblr thats like ‘i’m Tiny and weak let me susck your dick i love to comment on trivial things im meek n fragile the trees talk to me i tlak to them i want a boy to spit in my mOuth’ 

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barfpop:

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hayakata:

I refuse to let you forget what I look like.  

10 Steps to Self Care

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it.

2. Say “exactly” what you mean.

3. Don’t be a people pleaser.

4. Trust your instincts.

5. Never speak badly about yourself.

6. Never give up on your dreams.

7. Don’t be afraid to say “no”.

8. Don’t be afraid to say “yes”.

9. Resist the need to always have control.

10. Stay away from drama and negativity – as much as possible.

Source: Lessons Learned in Life

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burgerking:

Chicken Fries. Oreo Shake. Perfection.

burgerking:

Chicken Fries. Oreo Shake. Perfection.

yourpersonalcheerleader:

I think the only downside of living alone is coming home tired/happy/insert some type of emotion and not being able to sit on the couch and talk it all out with someone. But it’s a certain someone. And until I find that, I’m embracing the single life.